Today, I am ashamed.

I don't usually go off topic, but what kind of rights activist would I be if I didn't mention the huge failure of North Carolina citizens in yesterday's election on Amendment One, the amendment to the state constitution which now defined marriage as between one man and one woman. Domestic Partnerships and Civil Unions are also no longer recognized in the state, even among straight couples. Only 34% of Carolinians got out to vote yesterday. The right wing may have won on the amendment, but they failed as decent human beings and, therefore, we all failed. By not voting, by losing, or by bigotry- we all failed in some way.

I want to say a huge thank you to everyone who spend their time, money, and resources campaigning against Amendment One and now it's time to refocus those efforts on repealing this government sanctioned bigotry. If the system works correctly it will be overturned as unconstitutional as it should be. I know that every state is on it's way to allowing gay marriage, but in these moments it seems difficult to imagine living in a country where fear and bigotry and oppression aren't the ruling force. We've made some headway as DOMA was struck down as well as DADT. I know we're doing well, I just don't feel it. Today I am disappointed in my state and I am ashamed to live here.

NC residents- vote NO on amendment one!

Amendment one would add an amendment to the NC constitution to define marriage as between one man and one woman. Remember, this isn't a straight or gay issue, it's a human issue.

Photo by  Danbwr Photos

No government has the right to tell its citizens when or whom to love.  The only queer people are those who don't love anybody.  ~Rita Mae Brown

My (mock) wedding

The triad strobist group hosted a wedding photography class. I, of course, was not the traditional bride. In addition to dressing in a black wedding dress and having oddly colored hair, I brought my good friend, Jessi, to be my bride. I knew not everyone would want to shoot a non traditional "couple", but I knew there'd be a few other traditional couples there.. so hey, something for everyone right? Of course, it turns out that there was only one other couple there. So I didn't get a lot of photos of me and Jessi.. but I completely understand that everyone wanted the white dress and suit for their portfolios. Sometimes circumstances just suck.

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